They just don't get it, do they? The following is a useful list to help men narrowing the massive gap separating Mars and Venus.

You don't like to talk

So what if you are not wired to express yourself... at least when we were spending time together. Yet, we see you pontificate all the time about politics and football stuff so you are definitely not lacking in the eloquence department. Why, then, is it so difficult to let us know how you feel and your problems? We are great listeners. And we love to give kisses and hugs to vulnerable men.

You don't listen

We don't always need solutions when we complain. It's not that we don't want your advise but all we want is for you to just hold us in your arms and say: "I want to hear about your that evil superior."

You belittle our problems

The last thing you want to do is to take an issue that we are concerned lightly. We would not want to get the response, "Don't think too much. Go sleep." after spending so much time telling you the the matter and how we feel. The right thing to d ois help us forget the stres (think massage, chamomile tea, scented candles.)

You don't ask for help

Even if its just asking for directions or for assistance to revive the lifeless laptop, you just refuse to seek help. It just don't work out by pressing the reboot button 11 times within 30 minutes interval. It will, show us how silly you really are. The smarter move would be to just speak.

You don't help, period

The next time you see a lady struggling with a heavy door, let loose your muscle man instincts and display some degree of chivalry. Yes, we can open our own doors and change our own light bulb. But is we're obviously wrestling with an Allen key and the bolt just don't budge, come to our rescue already.

You're fickle.. when it comes to us

Many men display a great propensity for sweet nothings and out-of-this-world promises during the chase. Then within a month of making the kill, comes the realization that we're not "The One". We know lovely-dovey drivel is part of courtship, but if you say you'll love us for eternity, then change your mind mere weeks later, don't blame us for being livid. Fickleness is our prerogative, not yours.

You make us nag

We're such nags because you don't response when we say something. So we say reiterate it at times. We don't enjoying repeating ourselve. So if you would remember all the seven points listed here, we will never have to nag again.